Oh my God! I like you so much because you are so much "worse" than me. lol
Do you really enjoy your H's company apart from the sex? Did you used to enjoy it more? Here's why I ask. When I was a greedy little girl I had a friend who still had most of her Easter candy when summer vacation started (mine of course had been converted into major tummy ache within 24 hours) It was all displayed most attractively and temptingly up on her dresser in plain sight. I would go over to her house and play boring *ss games like Hi Ho Cherry Oh in the hope that I might get a jelly bean or perhaps a sliver of chocolate. Clearly if I had been less of a "little piggie", as your H so charmingly put it, I could have been a better friend to the girl because I would have insisted on playing more interesting games some of the time and therefore I would have better enjoyed her company. Near the end of my marriage my H wrote in a note "IOU 10 years of fun" It was definitely a case of "too little, too late" but the only person who owed me 10 years of fun was myself. Don't wait too long or eventually what will happen is one day you'll get the notion that the Easter Candy is actually kind of stale and then there will be no attraction at all left in the marriage. (Especially if it hurts your feelings to be called a little piggie.)
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
