I am reading "The Way of The Superior Man" and it is a good read. What I don't understand is how do the techniques described help me with my W if she has already left? I see that it is about building confidence but she left because I was not the "man" she wanted to stay with. What can I do for her since she has left except be supportive of her career and be the best father to my D&S?
You need to realize that by doing all these things you are becoming 'attractive' to her. It is by changing how you interact with her and how you feel about yourself that you'll push her 'attraction' buttons. They're biological and right now she is in a 'biological' endorphin high from OM because HE pushed those buttons.
Except HE won't last. He's a fantasy, a made up life. It's all based on a lie. He's just getting his Ego points and when she starts laying the day to day crap with kids and other issues on him, he's going to bail.
You, on the other hand, are going to be the consistent, predictable rock. Not a doormat, but a real man.
I also suggest going to David Cunninghams site, his blog actually at blog.makingherhappy.com and on the right sidebar he has two free e-books. one on 'break up busting' and one on 'what women really want'. Both are good, and I thinkyou would get a lot of insight by reading his blog, and subscribe to his free e-mail list.
