sorry, it doesn't fall more on him than you. I know you feel it should, but it doesn't....at the very least it should be 50/50. You saying that makes me feel you think you are entitled to having your needs met unconditionally....
[b] Hell, I'll take 90% responsibility... just give me tools. So, I don't touch him - what, ever? I don't initiate, when, ever? I bat my eyelashes and tell everyone I know how lucky I am to have such a stud for a hubby? But how long do I do this? always? Do I never get to initiate? Do I never get to say, "hey, what about me?" How long before I should start seeing results? What else should I do?
This sucks. :-(
36 y/o HD in committed monogomous relationship for 15 years (at least on my end, assumed on his as well) 2 children, 6.5 dd & 5 ds
