What do you mean by "more"? Does he know what you mean by "more"? Maybe he would like more but isn't sure if it would go well or if you would enjoy it. Even if you're up for more, he'll probably still doubt that it'll go well.
LOL! I've pulled out sex toys, lingerie, porn, etc. I try to go down on him, suck/bite/focus on other body parts, get out costumes (somehow I got him to play along with me and we were S&M's last year -kids M&M costumes repurposed for a 3day breastwalk fundraising masquarade) but all that's usually met with "what's wrong with you?", Why cant you be normal? Apparently he thinks a normal woman is not really intersted in sex and could care less about all the romantic and/or sexy stuff. Gosh, he doesn't even usually let me be on top. He is so about being "in control" and when we do have sex, it's very "in the dark" - no candles, blinds shut, covers on, and he sets the pace.
But then again, I orgasm almost every time we have sex - I tell him how happy us being intimate makes me.
I'll go with the grand public proclamation of "he's a studmuffin", per your suggestion.
36 y/o HD in committed monogomous relationship for 15 years (at least on my end, assumed on his as well) 2 children, 6.5 dd & 5 ds
