Monogomous Nympho Frustrated by Sexy LD Hubby

[loonyqt]

Greeneyed-

Yes, I keep the bitch factor in check until about the week-mark, which also generally corresponds to a few bouts of initiation with rejection, as well. Also, I can hold my tongue more than a week IF he isn't off galavanting on some manly late-night pursuit of foosballing at his fave beachside pub or motocrossing a weekend day away... that's usually when the tongue starts wagging. "So, it's more important to you to go ____, than spend time with your wife?" If you think that's the best thing for your family, go right ahead." To which he replies, "we'll do 'ookies' (his cute dimunitive phrase for the deed) tomorrow - I just need to decompress, it's been a long week..." Yea, whatever, I say. Sometimes I throw in some pouting and extra bitchiness to my voice. If it escalates, he usually throws in something on the order of, "why are you so horny? (or if he's really pissed - why are you such a little piggie (which I think is a rather telling statement) and I may say something on the order of, "this really sucks" "why can't we compromise" "maybe I should go get some somewhere else".

Oh, and I wrote our vows - they state, "I vow to freely share my body, mind and soul", they do NOT state, "I will not share my body, mind and soul with other people".

Are humans really meant to be monogomous? I mean 14 years of the same ol, same ol is fine with me, but maybe he's bored and could care less and that's the defining piece of his low desire? My preference is to have hot & heavy sex with him on a regular basis, but if he's not willing, why is it so wrong for me to have sex on the side? Again, that is NOT my preference but what I currently have is not cutting it...

My ideal is every morning and night. I really want every night. I can live with 3x/wk. But, in all honesty - I just want to switch out the dynamic we have so that sex is more frequent and more passionate than our avg. 3x/m. If we can double that, that would be a good start. I am not unreasonable...