LRT backfire for anyone? More patience needed?

[Dr.mom]

Thanks babe, been lurking, not posting. Actually, trying to write the Great American Novel. More productive than spewing on the internet.

Keeping up on your sitch. Prayers for ya my sista!
But now I need to spew . . .

Gonna try Marriage Builders for a while. Part of me is just done. Am afraid anymore time spent on this subject (marriage) is going to damage me for good.

Anyway, actually I am pretty happy with the going dark/LRT. No panic at who is going to be on the phone, no frantically checking emails anymore. Actually want to discard my old email address. It is just him and Spam these days, as I have a new account.

He finally agreed to take his dogs away. They were starting to drive me nuts. One I really hate, and I was getting tired of having to come home 3X daily to care for them. I have no idea where they are. His apartment won't let them stay. But for some odd reason, I no longer care. His responsibility.

Now I am free, to go on vacation, take long weekends. Come home late. I feel like the "kids" are away at camp.

Anyway this is why all my bliss is disturbed. When WAH dropped the bomb (June15) I asked him for a 3 month grace period. He agreed. The deadline is coming up in a week or two. Also that week is our 10 year anniversary and his 38th birthday (yeah. I kinda planned that).

I am getting weirded out on what to do. He has remained steadfast in his desire for an amicable dissolution. I went dark July 18th. I'd like to stay dark, especially since I sense he will seek me out to "talk about our dissolution".

The week before is our anniversary/his B-day. How do I respond? I just want to ignore it. He wants me to disappear, get out of his life, get on with my own.

Advice?