Amen! Quit snooping! It really kills your PMA. Even if you don't find anything, it will always make you suspicious. That's not good for your R. If your H is going to cheat, he will and the M is over anyways. Just worry about working on yourself and let go of the control.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.