The thing is my H was actually waiting for a reason to leave. He was already checked out of the M but had I read DB prior to seperation it would have worked out better. Too bad people only seek out the book a week after they kick someone out. It is not too late for you. Try the assignments on the CD. Take everyone's advice on the forum. You will either get a better marriage or get rid of a bad marriage. Either way, you will be better off trying to save your marriage, knowing you did everything in your power to be a more understanding and accepting spouse.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
