Need advice on WAW with OM

[svejk]

Sunny/Lin/Heimlich,

I really have no intention of using someone to make my wife jealous, although I agree it may appear that way from what I wrote. I'm like Heimlich..I'd just like some female companionship, nothing serious, just to have someone to go to dinner with and enjoy the company. I would certainly never hurt anyone and let it get serious, I love my wife and want her back too much to ever let that happen.

I admit I was hoping that making my wife jealous would be a fringe benefit of dating someone. I have way too much time on my hands to sit around and think about my R with my wife and how I can win her back.

I agree with Sunny/Lin that my jealousy idea is not a good one and I wouldn't want my wife to come back because of jealousy, but it was really just a thought. I want my wife back so badly it makes me have these crazy ideas sometimes. That's why I love the people who post here and help set me straight when I'm not thinking clearly. I really appreaciate it.

Thanks,
Svejk