I know that my H wants to feel for me like he did for the OW. He has admitted to it and says now that he was in a bubble and he knows that what he has/had isn't real love, but he is addicted to the high and it is such an ego boost. They are crazy. I say you are willing to give up everything for something that will be short lived. He just looks at me. He tells me how I'm his best friend and what a wonderful women I am. I just don't get it. They know the OW doesn't help there marriage, but they are addicts.
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Looks like you have really gotten the hang of detaching
I wouldn't really say I have the hang of it, since I'm really by myself. I do like his reaction to my imaginary boyfriend. I just don't know how long I can do this.
Thanks for your input.
Faith
H 48 W 57 M 15 yrs T 18 yrs No children EA 1/12/06 Moved out 3/10/07 & 8/16/07 Back on 5/18/07 2nd Thread