Hi all. Been a while since I posted, but now i move to this forum since my D is coming soon...but not sure why because we still get along like best friends.
Let me explain, I don't know how to link my sitches, but to make a long story short..M 10 years..first five were picture perfect..had our D6...then W and I tried for a S..my family fought it because they wanted my nephew to have a boy to carry on the name instead of me and W...WTF?? Don't ask, I don't understand it either.
I stayed neutral between my W and my family. I know I should have stuck up for W, but didn't. I regret that now. We did have our S2 and things went bad from conception between us ever since. W had an A last August and I had to move out to clear our heads. W said she lost her love for me for the past 2 years and can't get them back.
I am not at the stage she is so getting over her is hard. She just now found a OM she is dating, but she doesn't plan to stick with him long because she is moving out of state due to job promotion. OM is OK with this. So for the next few months anyway, I have to deal that she has moved on with her life, and I know i should too, but keep holding on to hope that we can reconcile later on. She says I can't do that because no one knows what the future holds..we just need to move on..
So I guess my big question is, even though we are like best friends, can it be possible for her to come around again after a while apart minus visitation with my kids? I feel there is so much potential to have a great M or r again with her, but she feels that it would never be the same again if we were together again..
Her analogy to me was..If the house crumbles to the foundation, you can use that to rebuild the house, but in our case, we would always have to drive around the foundation with no new house aitting on it......Does that even make sense?
I know for now I need to move on with dating and such..I just hate the idea that she can't understand to let the past be the past.
