Just read the update regarding your change in splitting your inheritance w/ your W.
I posted this to you a couple of weeks ago, after she made it clear she wasn't interested in extending the D date. In fact, if I remember correctly, she rolled her eyes at the suggestion.
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Last night, after reading about the "talk", I put myself in your W's place to see how it might look.
This is going to sound shallow; One of the "thoughts" I had as your W, is that if I don't get a D now, then I'm back to being in limbo w/ parts of my life, especially financially.
She knows that the offer of sharing the proceeds from the sale of the house is a generous one. If you stop things now, she might not be in that position again.
Maybe she wants to go ahead with it, get in a better position, & then consider a new R with you
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I think you're approaching this in a much healthier way, & keeping it more in a business mode, which is where it should prolly be.
Her behavior is questionable, at best. Certainly not wise for someone who wants a favorable deal to show before it actually closes.
Makes ya wonder, don't it! That was a pretty expensive party she went to......
