I know you want to console her, but that is why you can't. She is really playing games, and although she may be truly confused, she is also doing nothing about it to help matters.
You think she would "wake up" now and realize what she is doing.. I don't understand it.. how a infatuation can take you over and you completely disregard your loved ones in the process.
Chin up and stay strong!
TAL
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.