Well my W is pushing the divorce on me while I am at work. She emailed me asking for my thoughts about her proposal. Here is the email:
W's email: will you mind sending me a list or the copy of what you are sending your L so i can consider the changes and things that you feel are important. spoke with my lawyer and he said we may need to go to mediation in regards to the technical stuff. you sending me the list would allow us to talk with our words
My Response: XXXXX,
I know that I said I would send my thoughts about your proposal over to you, but I really do not think it is a good idea. We have payed our lawyers good money and they need to hash some of this out between the two of them . It is mutually beneficial to us and our girls that they do. It also puts most of the frustrations on them. To this day I do not think that there has been a whole lot of discussion between the two of them. My L knows where I stand on most of the issues. Your L and her should be able to figure most of it out. If there are some points they cannot come to an agreement on then I think we need to talk about it.
Take Care, Scott
She then started chatting me about settling on a price for our house. I told her again that I think this should go through our L's and we need to leave the frustrations with them.
She then called me a few minutes later and told me about our girls schedule the rest of the day. She was crying on the phone and stated that she is going to soon breakdown. She said that she is going to try and stay away from the house because she did not want to be around while I was spending time with our girls.
I hate this. A huge part of me wanted to consul her and give her a hug. But I believe that would only make matters worse. I guess I still care for her more then I would like too at this point.
