Why do people just give up because its just too hard to try? and while there are little ones involved shouldn't we try even harder?
I really do not know. I always thought that was what you were saying when you take your vows. But some people like my W don't have the intestinal fortitude to make it work through the worst of it. Does that make her weak? maybe...I guess it proves she is human and is choosing the easy way out. But again I go back to the vows that we took and the do not leave room for an easy way out.
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I wouldn't want my kids to know that I just gave up, that I tried like he!! to stay together and fought for our family.
I agree 100%. I know that in the end I can look my girls in the face and say that I tried to keep our family together. My W on the other hand cannot. That is something that she is going to have to live with for the rest of her life. She is grabbing onto a fantasy that in the end is going to fizzle out and reality is then going to smack her square between her eyes.
