***I guess I my approach for now will be to not actively go looking for someone, but if someone happens to come along I don't think I will turn her down.***
I think you need to really think about this...if all it takes for you to move on is for someone nice and available to ask you out, you need to ask yourself "How committed to my marriage am I?"
Your W is insecure...your not dating is showing security to her...if you start dating she might in a "knee jerk" reaction come back to you...but not for the right reasons...you need to be her security...making her feel insecure and "forcing" her home won't result in a happy marraige...and you will ride down this same path again...or directly Pass GO to divorce...
