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I think many problems that arise in the course of a marriage can be resolved by sort of hitting the reset button and doing the courtship dance again or by thinking about why this is not possible. For instance, if a man has lost his purpose in life or a woman has gained 50 lbs. or familiarity and comfort has destroyed the libido thrill of the chase or if a slow-build up of resentment has killed emotional connection


Can you elaborate on this a bit? By a reset do you mean leaving? You left me hanging on the second sentence, there's a missing THEN in the IF statement. Sorry for the software joke, I couldn't resist. What do you do if the better half is familiar and comfortable?

I enjoyed reading your post BTW, sounds like you have the theory figured out but the reduction to practice is the hangup. As with just about everything.