Hello my friend, long time no see but I've been thinking about you.
As I was reading your feelings and talking about the line you are approaching, it struck me that that line is very similar to the one your W has already crossed. We learn with DB that the feelings are gone and it will take a lot of work to get them back and thus the DB practices are put into motion. So, I guess what I'm thinking is why is your line different than hers? Why are your feelings any different?
I'm sounding confrontational, not at all. Just thinking that the same rules apply for all of us. Someone wrote that earlier-I would try because at the core of our beliefs with DB is that feelings grow and wane and grow again.
I'm starting to see marriage and love as a journey, not a destination.
Me-36 W-36, waw, mlc and ea. Together 17 yrs Married 16 yrs Bomb 12/21/06 Asked about counseling together 8.07 doesn't believe in what i believe in and doesn't know how to fix this 11.07 Demanded we sell the house 2.08 Admitted affair 4.08
Hey (((Nomo))), just wanting to let you know that I still have faith in you :). Everything will be OK. You are a really good man, I am convinced that your W will realize that eventually. Just bumped into a new success story that has some similarities to your sitch, I hope it will offer you some much needed inspiration. Here it is:
Hey Nomo, You're probably resting from a great but tiring week. that mouse drains it out. Hope all is well. You have soooo many F's here, I think we may lock your thread before you get a chance to tell us about your week with kids
Me 32 WAW 30 D Bomb 7/9 Separated 7/15 Reiterated bomb 8/12 PA 8/21 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1198643
Hi everyone! Got my computer fix this morning (monitor problems so was out Fri- Sun). Just logging on. Will dive back in later today/tonight. Work's been kicking my A.
I've missed all you fine people!!!
Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
I almost called you yesterday because I was getting concerned about not seeing you around (plus my internet was down and I was having DB withdrawals ) I am glad to see you "here" again!
