But what is relavent to healing? What details are needed and which are not?
Sheesh, I just want to get over this, and I don't think stuffing things down and "trying to forget it" is healing. I think it's bottled up stuff that can erupt later, or be used at a later date as a reason for one's own poor behavior. Also, I don't feel I can be close with my husband if there are these secrets. Hummmm.... Do I have secrets? Do these keep him from being close to me? Maybe it's just the knowing there are secrets there....
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
