Need advice on WAW with OM

[svejk]

Thanks Lin and Heimlich..

A lot of good points. As you can tell I'm very confused. I do think it's wrong to date someone while separated and still trying to work on R, but I'm so angry with my wife's seeing OM that it's clouding my judgement.

Based on some comments my wife has made, I'm pretty sure she would show more interest in me if I did start dating someone. She has asked me a couple of times if I was seeing someone else, and seemed relieved when I said no.. what hypocrisy!

I guess I my approach for now will be to not actively go looking for someone, but if someone happens to come along I don't think I will turn her down.

Thanks,
Svejk