Gotcha. Dunno, though there seem to be two schools of thought on this: 1. Your W will shout "hurray" he's moving on and I'm happy about that. 2. The "I want what I can't have" camp says that if someone else shows interest in you, your W may start showing interest in you again.
From what I've read of your sitch, my guess is that your W falls under category 2, but you'd know best.
And, seriously, if you want to date, do it. I'm inching steadily closer in that direction as well. Not ready for a RELATIONSHIP, but coffee/dinner/hiking with someone that enjoys my company because they enjoy my company is certainly appealing right now.
BD
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY