My vision is both being at separate bars flirting and being loud and then coming home to each other. Seems a bit like a recipe for disaster. Maybe I am not understanding what his 'vision' is.
sounds like his "vision" is changing. "going to a bar and flirting", doesnt seem to match up any more with his new stated goals of "dating you, but having platonic friends".
Maybe you should not worry so much about what his "vision" is right this second. sounds like it may change anyway. (probably a few times, even )
PPS: please note my other quickie post
Last edited by Dom R; 08/27/0706:39 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle