If you can get the help you need to stop your hurting, I think you are going to see things in your life/marriage/wife in a whole different way... you will see options you couldn't see before.
The intensity/frequency of pain you are feeling is the initial problem. That can be fixed.
Just exactly how can the pain be stopped? I really have no desire to take any drugs. If lack of affection is the CAUSE of my problems, how is the shrink going to change that?
