I say hey to him and he gets all hateful to me and then tells my friends who I was with and why our marriage failed.
Oh I know this too well. Listen, there is only one reason why he did this, plain and simple, he is jealous
YOU are NOT suppose to be out enjoying yourself, YOU are suppose to be at home curled up in a ball and miserable because he left you. Your life should have ended.
How dare you be out having a good time. You are suppose to be pining over him until you die...Geez what's wrong with you (Just in case, this is scarcasim).
Girl, you handled it well.
As for dreams and God speaking to you through them, well it is possible, but I have a tendancy not to look at dreams too closely.
Recently, my H has a new thing to complain about. The fact that I seem to be moving forward with my life. To him, he intreprets that as our marriage was nevr important to me and neither was he. That I show no remorse for my actions and that I don't care that the M is over.
so I simply asked him, what should I be doing? Answer: see below
Apparenlty he is under the same fog your H is. I should be at home sad and depressed for the rest of my life because my M ended.
Oh and apparently my H has been with 6 women since we separated (that would be since May/07). I just said, good for you, I am glad you are out dating and enjoying your life. Did not get angry or hold anything back, because to be honest, it did not phase me in the least.
Is it true? who knows. Do I care..hmmmm..not really.
For the first time in almost 2 years, I am really looking at our entire marriage. Honestly, I don't think I want it back anymore.
I am at peace with that choice, and if I end up alone, I know I will be ok
You will be ok KS. I see it in your posts, they have changed dramatically over the past 6 months, you are getting stronger, and once you get to the point where thinking of this does not make you angry, you will be amazed how your perception of the future changes.
