She doesn't want to see you or talk to you on the phone?

1. OK....she's a real piece of work. If you have no kids, sit down and think about what YOU really want.

2. Get over the fact that she's having and affair. Most times they do. Most times they lie about it. Welcome to infidelity

3. This affair will die on it's own. Unless she has a sub-concious need to be abused by a low-life, scum-bucket.

4. I think you need to focus on re-building your life AS IF she were not in it. This will make you very attractive.

5. What is the agreement regarding your separation?

--Theoden