why don't I listen to my own stories?

[Dom R]

Yesterday, H came up with the idea to go to where we had our first date. So, we went there and had a lot of conversation.

wow

"You know how an MLC is about being immature? Well, the experience made me realize I really do not want that at all. It matured me."

WOWOW.

I agree about the comments my3sons made. But it's probably not worth fighting over with your H.


But.. I am so happy for you!!

You're going on a date wednesday! You're going to be volunteering together! This is SO GREAT!!!!



I am really, really happy for you. you just keep doing what you are doing, you wonderful loving patient wife, you

About the only possible piece of advice I have, might be to mention and acknowlege to him (at some point, not neccessarily any time soon), something like that you know that people change what they do, and their opinions of things, over the course of their life. A good marriage, is one that allows both people to grow like that, invididually, yet at the same time , together.
[in other words, affirming his desire to "find himself"... yet at the same time, showing that he doesnt have to be apart from you, to do it]


you made my day. I'm very happy :-)

Wow... if only my own wife could think about the possibility of her being in an MLC, like your husband did on himself.