Matilda,

MY grandfather doesnt usually state his opinion too much (like most men),but when he does it is insightful. I mentioned to him how H use to asy how Ow makes him happy and he said -dont count on it. THat is for the most part a cover up. He may say and act like all is well,but he maybe miserable on the inside and I can assure you he prolly is. Well, H actual words were that around two months ago, he mumbled the words "I will go back to being miserable" This was when was really detached and ignored he plea & Oh poor me and wanting to come back. I knew deep down he wasnt really ready to make the move just yet.

This morning on the phone he actaully said he now realizes his own fault in this and how right I was,but did not want to get into to it toomuch as seeing I would only prolly throw it back at him( i use to do this before not anymore).Not getting my hopes up too much but am glad to see the light is starting to show at the end of the tunnel.