For those of you that dont know me, Im liz7, I begain posting last summer....right after the bomb!
My h and I are back together....he moved in with me around Jan, he left me in july 06....but we were together every day up tell he finally moved in.
Ok here is the issue....I can not trust this man....he tells me I am beautiful, our love life is great...tells me that he is "in love with me"...will never leave me again...if I get distant again he will talk to me instead of leaving me...etc..
I found out a month ago that he was trying to locate a girl from his old job...{I am the only one working, he just started college)...when I asked him about it he said he "thought" he had feelings for her...but it was just the pressures of work, and she was supportive to him...well now I just found out that he was on the internet looking for her "my space" he denied it but when I should the history of the computer with her name in it, he just said he wasnt going to talk to her, but only wanted to see what she was up too.
Now he tell me that when he was seperated from me, he talked to some woman on the phone twice, she invited him to dinner at her place..but he never showed up...and has never talked with her again...
I keep asking him...is there anything else he needs to tell me, he says no...and that is it now. he says he never slept with another woman or anything..not even held hands.. the stange thing is that I had a few months ago felt funny, I went into his cell phone...found some unknown numbers... called them the other day, the same first name as the girl he worked with, but different last name...he had two different numbers...one with the just the letter of the first name...and the other with the full first name...he says he doesnt know the person...or name.. I called the numbers, one is disconnected, the other one the girl said she didnt know him...
have any of you gone through this????? And how do I trust him when he doesnt tell me these things..until he is caught??
