you know they say that we become opposites. It would seem from your post that this happening in your sitch. I have seen this in my little Wonderland traveler as well. I keep going back to our 1st and last joint C session and I realize that she has some really big issues. Our sitch has gotten to the point that she will not talk to me unless she has to or she is crying and feeling bad (guilty).
I hope your sitch works out, mine appears heading to Divorce.
"Worry is the price you pay for most of the things in life that never happen"