chicki, Great Progress!!! Keep it up and yes, dont throw things in his face, H is owning up to his faults which is good.
I told my W that I admit to all I have to done her and I am facing my guilts as a man.
Keep positive and try not to bring up old stories/fights. Keep going forward, you probably are crossing that bridge and for sure do some more alone time, let H take care of the girls. The more he does this the more he will come to you.
Good luck.
See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...