Originally Posted By: thegoodfight
She is only seems okay because she has convinced herself this okay.


Yeah, I believe your right. I can see that now. Thanks for pointing it out.

Originally Posted By: thegoodfight
Give it time and she will realize and feel guilt for what she has done and is doing.


Man, I hope your right. I do not mind putting in the time, if that will be the end result.

Originally Posted By: thegoodfight
She definetly is telling you she is not ready to work on anything right now.


Sadly, that is the one ting that is most evident and most clearly communicated to me by her.

“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED”
“You have to have a life to share a life with someone”
“When you stop resisting, you start learning”

M15yrs
Divorced 07/07