Wknd update, W and I took D to see butterflies since D love them so much. D had so much fun! At the butterfly house there is a very nice park. D liked being in the park where she can run and do so much. We had a pleasant Saturday and I felt so in love with W since I am open to do all these events. Funny how W reacted last Thursday when we argued. Friday night, it was raining so D and I ordered Chinese take out. D and I had dinner together and W came home. W was hungry she had dinner and enjoyed it very much, then we had to go to UPS to get D's leapfrog books. Upon returning, we stopped by DQ and got dessert. We all enjoyed doing so. We discussed about D's pre-K and were very contented we will get D into a early childhood program.
I watched a movie alone but W didnt stayed up too late and neither did I. On Saturday night, I put on a movie about relationship "I think I love my wife." Rather funny but we enjoyed it very much. It's the first time that W watched a movie with me in a very long time. W enjoyed it and went to bed thereafter.
Sunday, we didnt do too much since W had to do her online courses and I kept D contented. D and I went out for a few and came back to make dinner. We all had dinner and had a splendid afternoon. I did my Sunday chores and thereafter spend some educational time with D. I put on Lords of the Ring - Return of the King since it was on TNT and shut down the computer.
W came and asked what was I watching and I told her, W said she would like to watch it on dvd. I told W we can do so, we wathced the movie on dvd and went to be rather late. In all, we spent some quality time together again and I felt so great about this happening.
Thinking about the entire weekend made me feel so special that for once in my life I am doing something right - I share myself with my family and give my family all my time. I LOVE doing so! It's the new ME. I even got a hair cut and got some more work shirts.
Something to reflect on, W said when she moved she would not want for me to go and see her every minute. It means she wont mind if I come to visit with her but dont want to see me as often as I chose. I wont do this but I will still plan activities around the family including her. W said she had a nightmare Saturday night and I thought why didnt she come and get me so I can cuddle and make her feel save - LOL. W wanted but was afraid we may do something else so she stayed away.
To recap, we both enjoyed our weekend with each other eventhough we had D with us but this is what W likes to do. W admires to a husband who spends quality family time and that is exactly what I am doing.
Hopefully, we have a good week and it's possible I can ask W to go to Chicago for the long holiday wknd.
See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...
