(((HUGS))) I can empathise with the feeling broken. I too feel like that often. For me it is a feeling that is generated because I feel out of control. I feel anxious as well. It is a horrible feeling.

It is *so* important to detach. I have had to do that big time even going as far as to ban my H from my home and refuse totalk with him (other than e-mail about our son)

nasty as this sounds I had to do this to protect my own mental health and get myself strong again.

Take care NC


Be The Greener Grass.


Me 40
H 42
Son 11
Married 15 years.
Left May 2006 after gambling spree
I had EA August 2006
OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!)
I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.