Hopeless,

Be brave. I'm praying that you will be strong tomorrow.

Here are some of my thoughts.

1. You did everything you could do.

2. Your husband is weak. He wants to leave the OW, but can't. He wants to be with you, but can't. In other words, he's not a man. Simply put, he needs to grow a sack. The OW will suck the life out of him.

3. This is his second affair. It's a pattern. He has no character. Unless he deeply changes, he would do it again.

4. The truth is, he's not man enough for you. He's spineless and has no clear convictions in life. He sounds like a wet noodle.

--Theoden