Thanks everyone for all your kind words and support. I've been living in this h$ll on earth for the last 10 months and I can confidently say that I did everything that I could to save my marriage and I am a stronger, better person because of this. My husband, on the otherhand, cannot not say the same. He is living in a dream or a nightmare and tomorrow reality is going to start hitting him that he ruined the best thing that ever happened to him and after tomorrow....he really did take it "too far". It sucks...there is no doubt about it, but you deal with the hand that you were given. I wish everyone all the best. I hope everyone else's marriages can be saved, but in the end if your marriage comes to divorce, I think after fighting a battle like this you have to trust that is what God had in store for you. No one on here made crazy, rash decisions. We did things right...we took time. Whatever happens in the end is what God intended.

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