Thanks for the feedback everyone! To answer a couple of questions: 1) Yes, I know the guy. Have known him about 15 years. Never truly liked him, though he has always blown smoke up my a#$ since I have been seeing W. Then he hits on her when I leave the room. 2) W moved out over a month ago and refuses any physical contact or to speak to me on phone. Our only communication is through email. The last time I asked her to talk was like pulling teeth from a T-Rex, and she only gave me 10 minutes, and was vindictive as he$1! Please read my previous post for full back background.