She is only seems okay because she has convinced herself this okay. Give it time and she will realize and feel guilt for what she has done and is doing. In regards to your reply I understand completely why you said what you said. You laid a pretty big guilt trip on her or at least that is the way she say it.
She has no control and she certainly doesn't want you to have any, probably why she won't come back. Child support that is up to you but if she can't pay maybe they can just log it and she can make it up over time. She definetly is telling you she is not ready to work on anything right now.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
