Dave, Yeah, not sure how it is going to go. When I spoke to her briefly yesterday, she seemed very positive about trying to help make things work, but I've spoken also to my SIL who thinks she may not be that interested in seeing my side. Unfortunately, my W did find out I was going to speak to them. She seemed a bit irritated by that as though I am trying to get everyone on my side and make her look like the bad guy. Not sure if this is going to backfire or not.
Sorry about posting four times in a row there. It wasn't updating and I thought the post just hadn't taken.