Dont know about that , Have made my share of mistakes along the way. Right now I pretty much stopped worrying about what she is thinking , up to etc. Occasionaly something pops up that hits you like a ton of bricks but i get through those set backs much quicker these days. I actualy enjoy my life again more than I have for a long time , then I am fortunate in that I have my kids living with me , I realy feel for those who have moved out. I also enjoy every day as this situation is fragile and W could force some major changes if and when she wants to pursue a formal separation agreement. Here in NZ we have to wait 2yrs to divorce but can split assets and formally separate at any time.
I am thinking about getting an agreement prepared along the lines of what she has told me what she wants and at the first hint of a downturn get it signed up while we are reasonably amicable. At this stage she will not go for full custody or any of my toys. I will probably procrastinate on this for a while yet.
I can honestly say that I am at the stage where I am hanging in there for my kids. If it was not for them I probably would have had enough by now.
Patience is what I need more of right now . I think I will spin some Willie Nelson on the turntable and mellow out a bit.
