Sara - thanks so much. I'm going to check that book out. I think it might help. It is strange how something monetary would make me feel better. I guess it's like being engaged all over again - we must be trained to understand that money = commitment. Wow.

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a few weeks after we went to an outdoor fair and he bought me $20. earrings. I acted happy with them.

LOL! Too funny. I would have "acted" happy too.

H claimed to have ended things with OW all year, and all year he's been buying me jewelry from Tiffany's. Necklace for Valentines, bracelet for anniversary, earrings for my birthday...and I can't wear any of it. I feel like it's all guilt gifts considering he was with her the whole time. I feel like he bought me stuff while wishing he was buying it for her - then again, whose to say he wasn't buying two? One for her, one for his wife...hmph...I can't go down that path

Thanks for stopping by! I appreciate it!


Me: 34
H: 39
M: 7 yrs
H A 12/05-8/07

If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley