I agree , I am learning every day , trying small things without doing anything that would be seen as too much pressure.
I kind of have a handle on where W is right now , due in some part to what she has said from time to time and from being observant.
You do seem to have a handle on the whole DB experience Dave. It looks like you have a real feel for when to add something new, when to engage a little & the most important probably, when to back away.
Since our R's look like they have a lot of similarities, I like to check out what's happening on the other side of the world with yours to get insight.
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I forgot to mention that there is a wild card in all this theory and thats the OM. Where he is at in her life right now I have no idea.
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W was quite subdued , seemed to enjoy her time here but certainly not herself, shes been like this for a couple of days now. I wonder whats getting her down but am not about to start guessing
Yes, better to let it some out on it's own time than to risk undoing the positive strides you've worked for.