Need Help!!!

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That is where I struggle, letting her lead. I have a direction that I want to go to fix this and she seems to be in teh land of the lost.

She has initiated time for us to go out and do things. The racetrack was one and today we went to her friends apartment complex to play volleyball. She ended up doing most of the playing while I watched and spent time with our son. It was a good reversal of roles, she has done most of the observing while I played the sports. She enjoyed it, I got a bit bored. I did go with the mentality that she needed to play. we also went to dinner, just the three of us for the first time in I do not know how long. It was good, casual conversation. I am getting real antsy on flirting with her but I do not want to push things, and her to the OM. One day at a time...

We are actually up in Garden Grove, CA. Del Mar took forver to get to, the traffic down to SD on weekends is ridiculous...