I asked H to leave; regret-now what?

[mkultra]

Try listening to Dr. Kreidman's Light Your Fire for Women. I WISH I listened to these CDs before asking my H to leave! His ego is so bent, he will not come home. He sleeps at his OW's place most nights because she "understands him"! The Dr. mentions that a man IS his job. Women do not have to define themselves through their work. Women also are raised getting many compliments per week, being noticed by other men and women. Men do not. They need a lot of sypathy and attention. Sounds like babysitting but men are in a fragile place in our culture. Sometimes I wish I could have just given my H a hug that night. He needed one person to be there so he found someone else. Loser move, yes. But all in the past.