Your not going to be able to contain your need to confront her. I couldn't and I don't think many on this board could either.
I agree with the others though, you have to remain calm, cool, and collected. Don't let jealousy, anger, or the pain your feeling come through. Fake it if you have to.
You remaining calm and cool projects confidence and strength your W will surely take notice of.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
