im probably the last person you should ask that question to, b/c I have a habit of flying off the handle if you will. No really, If I knew my H was having an A, there is no way I wouldn't be able to not confront him. Although my H hasn't had one.. (porn and other issues) When I found out about his problem, I immediately confronted him about it, I like everything out in the open.

If you want to confront her, just do it calmly, if she gets excited and freaked out, just remain calm, you don't want to get into a screaming match.

Take Care.

TAL

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.