Not always easy. Ask yourself this for each instance:
If she asks for X and I say Ok, am I Ok when she does not follow thru w/ my desired result?
if not, don't give her X.
This is a very simplified example, but I think you get the jist.


Me 32
WAW 30
D Bomb 7/9
Separated 7/15
Reiterated bomb 8/12
PA 8/21
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