Well, he called around 7 tonight, I waited until about 8:30 to call back. Apparently, he was already in bed, but answered the phone anyway. Then he starts talking about work, about how he has the opportunity to go over the road and weld, be gone for weeks or months at a time... He asked what i thought about that. I gave him an honest answer and told him that I didn't think that would be very good for our relationship or the kids. That kids didn't care about how much money daddy made, they would rather go to the park with him or have him at their basketball games... all he could talk about was the money and how this was something he has always wanted to do...
