Thanks lwb! A little less crazy, but more sick to my stomach now. Of all of the things I knew she was ever capable of, infidelity was my last concern. We haven't even been married a year, and I'm not sure I could trust her again now. Yea, if DBing wasn't a focus, I'd call W from OM's front porch until she picked up the phone, and ask her myself. If she lied, I'd knock on the door and hand her the rest of her stuff! haha.
SIL is a good friend of mine and she was told by W not to ever speak to her again! Still, there is always that chance she may let it slip during a confrontation, but I guess that's it....Would W's knowledge of my own knowledge of the A hurt DBing?