No, actually its not. It is a nuisance. I have often daydreamed about how cool it would be to just be able to slip the thing in without 5-10 minutes of slowly inching it in so she doesn't get hurt. Granted, that part can be kinda cool sometimes, but it is hard to do the "assertive" thing when I'm having to focus on how she is reacting physically to me entering her, i.e. having to watch to see if I'm going to fast because she will wince a little in pain.
She should put you in herself. Actually, "The Guide To Getting It On" suggests that all women should do this most of the time and "He Comes Next" makes the good suggestion that women should definitely control entry for anal sex. It also makes the good suggestion that women should put themselves into a position slightly below horizontal with the penis and then push down a little so that they can ride/slide along the top side of the penis with a little pressure from the erection from below and then just rock back to achieve entry. Seems like a pretty surefire way to a hands-free orgasm upon entry (If you like that kind of thing - lol)
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
