It does suck to be the "bad guy", even when you're not. Last time I saw W, she said, "I can't eat! I can't sleep! I'm sick all the time! YOU did this to me!"
I had a hard time fighting the urge to argue. She left. She took off her rings. She asked for the D. She has done all of that to herself. She could have said that I did that to her before she left. After that, it's out of my hands. But she really considers everything to be my fault.
Oh well, keep hanging in there. One day, she'll realize how much you tried to save and what she missed.
